07/17/12, my Uncle who has passed, Mervin, visited me, and told me to go home to Ontario. He didn't say Ontario though. He used a term that only he I used. I started preparing. On 12/31/12, I closed 4 investments. By 06/30/13, I closed most of the others. 07/03/13, I started traveling, with two duffles. I was trying to retrace my steps, the travels of the adults, from 1985. I finally found my relatives Q4 2022, and now need to connect with them, and return home.
I told many people I wanted to go home, along the way. It surprised me how many people projected, and interpreted my statements under their own lense. Or should I say, mistinterpreted.
One such Actor, sent me a word document Q4, and he took my 2012 writing, and entirely changed it, which I felt, was rather rude + dangerous intentional fraud. Instead of react, I chose to have the perspective that, "everything is a gift". I ended up doing forensics on that fraud document, and was able to close some loops on a couple open government cases that I was working on. So it was beneficial, for my career, research, and ultimately, bottom line.
Healthy people, know how to make the most complex things, simple.
People that are socially healthy, use a tool in interaction which has to do with matching/mirroring. It's taking what the other said, and stating it back, without adding anything extra. Try it. It's very simple, and the results, can be remarkable.
